The Selfish MotherFu****g Party of One (couldn't have said it better, Arbjan!)
I have never seen such support from the people around me as in these past few days.
I've also never had to give as support much in such a close time-frame, and I love it.
I want to personally thank Roxie, Lilly, Liz, Meghan, Arby, Ally J, Josh, Kate, Andre, and Eric not only for being genuinely concerned but for showing that they were. After a couple of months of dealing with The Selfish M-Fing Party of One [SMFPO] (fyi, that's how I shall occassionally refer to the ex from now on) it is pleasant, refreshing, and comforting to know that I have people who love me and care, and are not too caught up with themselves to show it.
I love you all VERY VERY VERY VERY much and I am completely appreciative of your time, concern, and supportive words (even if you were drunk...ahem...allison) ::HUGS::
Yesterday after a whole day of truly undeserving tears, (not exactly bc of the breakup, but bc of what did not happen afterwards...don't want to get into it) I finally talked to the SMFPO & after listening to a dreadful explanation for why I did not hear from him until then, I concluded that I felt sorry for him. To be able to love someone else, it is true that you have to love yourself...and he's got that covered....too covered. When you look back at your life & all you see is YOU, you've done something wrong. God made us all the way He did on purpose. There is a method to the madness. We are all imperfect and flawed; but in a way that I am inefficient, someone else is fantastic, and vice versa. I honestly believe that God made us that way so that we would NEED each other, so that we would call on each other, so that we could know love & unity, and thus know Him.
When you are a SMFPO, it will be highly difficult to be loved, and more dangerously, to love. So I pity anyone whose head is so far up in their posterior, that they will miss the greatest part of life.
Lilly said that today the lake will be bluer and the sun, brighter. I wanted to believe her, and I was a little skeptical, but when she's right, she's right. It is straight up 75 degrees today and my happy ass was smiling all around this campus. Today should have been skirt day. Lilly and I have been waiting for it to be warm enough to wear skirts. Not hoochie skirts, but classy knee-length skirts, bc we are classy bitches.
All of my lady friends are some classy bitches and I love them very much.
Philly-D, one of the most amazing people I know, has agreed to make music with me, and when we get it all together, I will let you all know when and where we are performing. Borders open-mic seems to be it for now.
*Get the hell off of your computer and go play outside, or I will cut you.
*Stay away from SMFPOs
*Wear flowy skirts whenever it's warm enough
*Surround yourself w/ people as loving as those I mentioned above.
*Listen to friends and family when they advise you to dump the SMFPO
*The egg song cures every frown, as does the moon song...I'll see if Liz will hook me up with the links....they're priceless.
*Guys, when a lady is in front of you, let her pass. Do not cut her off like a junior smfpo did today on the jackson el-stop. YOU SACK OF SHIT.
*Kelly Clarkson's "Since U Been Gone" will also do the trick if the egg/moon songs don't cut it.
*Give what you want to receive....the golden rule is phenomenal.
QOTD
"When me and a friend were visiting Cuba in '93, there was a high rate of prostitution, so to avoid being pawed at, we'd link arms when walking down the street. He was completely pawable!"
-J.D. Trout, my psych/philosophy prof said this today in class....he's a really funny guy. He's married, and straight, which is what makes this comment funny.-
I've also never had to give as support much in such a close time-frame, and I love it.
I want to personally thank Roxie, Lilly, Liz, Meghan, Arby, Ally J, Josh, Kate, Andre, and Eric not only for being genuinely concerned but for showing that they were. After a couple of months of dealing with The Selfish M-Fing Party of One [SMFPO] (fyi, that's how I shall occassionally refer to the ex from now on) it is pleasant, refreshing, and comforting to know that I have people who love me and care, and are not too caught up with themselves to show it.
I love you all VERY VERY VERY VERY much and I am completely appreciative of your time, concern, and supportive words (even if you were drunk...ahem...allison) ::HUGS::
Yesterday after a whole day of truly undeserving tears, (not exactly bc of the breakup, but bc of what did not happen afterwards...don't want to get into it) I finally talked to the SMFPO & after listening to a dreadful explanation for why I did not hear from him until then, I concluded that I felt sorry for him. To be able to love someone else, it is true that you have to love yourself...and he's got that covered....too covered. When you look back at your life & all you see is YOU, you've done something wrong. God made us all the way He did on purpose. There is a method to the madness. We are all imperfect and flawed; but in a way that I am inefficient, someone else is fantastic, and vice versa. I honestly believe that God made us that way so that we would NEED each other, so that we would call on each other, so that we could know love & unity, and thus know Him.
When you are a SMFPO, it will be highly difficult to be loved, and more dangerously, to love. So I pity anyone whose head is so far up in their posterior, that they will miss the greatest part of life.
Lilly said that today the lake will be bluer and the sun, brighter. I wanted to believe her, and I was a little skeptical, but when she's right, she's right. It is straight up 75 degrees today and my happy ass was smiling all around this campus. Today should have been skirt day. Lilly and I have been waiting for it to be warm enough to wear skirts. Not hoochie skirts, but classy knee-length skirts, bc we are classy bitches.
All of my lady friends are some classy bitches and I love them very much.
Philly-D, one of the most amazing people I know, has agreed to make music with me, and when we get it all together, I will let you all know when and where we are performing. Borders open-mic seems to be it for now.
*Get the hell off of your computer and go play outside, or I will cut you.
*Stay away from SMFPOs
*Wear flowy skirts whenever it's warm enough
*Surround yourself w/ people as loving as those I mentioned above.
*Listen to friends and family when they advise you to dump the SMFPO
*The egg song cures every frown, as does the moon song...I'll see if Liz will hook me up with the links....they're priceless.
*Guys, when a lady is in front of you, let her pass. Do not cut her off like a junior smfpo did today on the jackson el-stop. YOU SACK OF SHIT.
*Kelly Clarkson's "Since U Been Gone" will also do the trick if the egg/moon songs don't cut it.
*Give what you want to receive....the golden rule is phenomenal.
QOTD
"When me and a friend were visiting Cuba in '93, there was a high rate of prostitution, so to avoid being pawed at, we'd link arms when walking down the street. He was completely pawable!"
-J.D. Trout, my psych/philosophy prof said this today in class....he's a really funny guy. He's married, and straight, which is what makes this comment funny.-
posted by LoveisLife4Nen at 4:03 PM
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