Karma's A Bitch & Liz & I Are ALWAYS MAD!!
"I don't know what to say about it, when all your ears are turned away. But now's the time to look & look again at what you see. Is that the way it ought to stay?" Led Zeppelin "That's the Way"
Living & learning can be a swift kick in the ass sometimes, man. Something I always used to do to my ex-boyfriend (who was also my closest friend in the universe) has come back to bite me on the posterior.
Whenever he'd bring something up to me that I had done that hurt him, I'd always respond with "you're overreacting, it was nothing, and you're looking into it waaaay more than you should be." I know he reads the blog sometimes, and I won't say his name or anything, but this is my public apology.
It was done to me, and for someone to not even attempt to consider your feelings and that maybe their careless behavior did hurt you is fully disheartening. I'm sorry a million times, and thank you for having the patience and love to deal with that.
Funny how the varying experiences you have with different people shape, or reshape (in this instance) your character and your social skills.
Dating is a gamble these days with very few people that will actually merit your 100% all.
Sometimes it takes that walking away- not to figure out what you want in another person- but to figure out what someone else would want in you. In other words, sometimes a little self-modification is called for. You can't please everyone, but there's someone out there for everyone, & I think sometimes life just likes to train you to be ready for them, no matter how long it takes.
Someone on the planet is ready to love someone else just the way they should be.
Selfishness and inconsiderateness can definitely block the shit out of this training/development...and it's so sad when people miss that train. You can't win em all...some things and some people are just what they are and one should always believe them the first time around.
Love should never be as complicated as people make it these days. Love should always make you feel like you're at home.
When I'm home, I can be a mess, my hair not combed, my room a disaster, my pajamas not matching, drool on my face, whatever- but I know I will never be judjed and I know I will consistently be loved by the people in my home.
Love is not always a walk through the park, but if it is anything, it is consistent, and it thrives on truth and respect.
THE END.
QOTD
"Stupid cheap ass Easter!" -Lilly's boyfriend David commenting on the miniscule size of an easter snickers bar.
"I have turqouise pants, word to your mother." Lizzle
Living & learning can be a swift kick in the ass sometimes, man. Something I always used to do to my ex-boyfriend (who was also my closest friend in the universe) has come back to bite me on the posterior.
Whenever he'd bring something up to me that I had done that hurt him, I'd always respond with "you're overreacting, it was nothing, and you're looking into it waaaay more than you should be." I know he reads the blog sometimes, and I won't say his name or anything, but this is my public apology.
It was done to me, and for someone to not even attempt to consider your feelings and that maybe their careless behavior did hurt you is fully disheartening. I'm sorry a million times, and thank you for having the patience and love to deal with that.
Funny how the varying experiences you have with different people shape, or reshape (in this instance) your character and your social skills.
Dating is a gamble these days with very few people that will actually merit your 100% all.
Sometimes it takes that walking away- not to figure out what you want in another person- but to figure out what someone else would want in you. In other words, sometimes a little self-modification is called for. You can't please everyone, but there's someone out there for everyone, & I think sometimes life just likes to train you to be ready for them, no matter how long it takes.
Someone on the planet is ready to love someone else just the way they should be.
Selfishness and inconsiderateness can definitely block the shit out of this training/development...and it's so sad when people miss that train. You can't win em all...some things and some people are just what they are and one should always believe them the first time around.
Love should never be as complicated as people make it these days. Love should always make you feel like you're at home.
When I'm home, I can be a mess, my hair not combed, my room a disaster, my pajamas not matching, drool on my face, whatever- but I know I will never be judjed and I know I will consistently be loved by the people in my home.
Love is not always a walk through the park, but if it is anything, it is consistent, and it thrives on truth and respect.
THE END.
QOTD
"Stupid cheap ass Easter!" -Lilly's boyfriend David commenting on the miniscule size of an easter snickers bar.
"I have turqouise pants, word to your mother." Lizzle
posted by LoveisLife4Nen at 11:03 PM
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